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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: The Lake House
« Last post by Hopalong on November 18, 2025, 08:58:46 AM »
Strange but beautiful, I imagine and hope. So much LIFE around water!

Are there nice neighbors or a community there within a quick walk? Hope so.
Or hope a pleasant little town is easy to access.

hugs
Hops
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Farm Journal - 2025
« Last post by Hopalong on November 18, 2025, 08:55:27 AM »
Pup is much better, thanks! Although he did flunk out of training class in the first 10 minutes yesterday, alas. (My friend laughed so hard when she heard it; the more I pretend-guilt-tripped her the more she roared.) I will have to pony up for private sessions now.

I figured out some things yesterday: the problem is of course me, not him. Part One I believe its that the instruction is much too fast (for me) and with multiple quick steps. I just don't process or pivot quickly enough for the instructor's class pace, though she seems excellent and trains all over the region. I'll just explain that to her; like the dentist, I find a lot of professionals don't recognize my need for slower-paced info delivery for older brains, much less the ADHD ones. E.g., bend and wave the treat right in front of his nose and then lead his head around in a U shape, reward every time he looks at you for direction, use a clicker or use a word, avoid direct sight lines to other dogs, etc etc. My trouble starts with the quick repeated bending, which I've got about 5 minutes of before the back spasms. He's too damn short! I shoulda gotta greyhound! LOL. Part Two is me using self-discipline (I have heard of this concept, faintly) to do the homework daily. Part Three is keeping very flavorful training treats. I might try real bacon bits, which I already add to his food since he's so picky. Hot dogs are half chemicals and so slimy I hate handling them, ugh. Might as well take your dog to Arby's.

Now that I'm murdering chickens again (sob), your recipe made me drool.

Speaking of food, I decided with doc's approval to try a GLP-1 for three months. I just need to lose 25 pandemic pounds that I'd stapled on. Even if it just gives me a kickstart, I'm excited about it. The one she recommended is Zepbound which also has cardio-protective, anti-stroke and anti-dementia effects. Probably the extras only if you take it forever, which I'm reluctant to do unless the price REALLY sinks. The injection I could barely feel; the needle's the size of a spider's eyelash. Dunno if it's placebo effect, but I'm eating less already. Taking lowest available dose, and dunno if doubling that to the next dosage size after the three months will induce side effects. None whatever yet.

Hugs and I'm ready to move to your cottage now, Lighter -- the cold has arrived! :(
Hops
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: The Lake House
« Last post by lighter on November 17, 2025, 07:15:51 PM »
Winterizing lake house, then rolling home.

It's strange to think, the lake, will be home soon.

Lighter
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Farm Journal - 2025
« Last post by lighter on November 17, 2025, 07:13:05 PM »
We're celebrating on the 25th, Hops, so will be looking for something to do on 27th as well.  The idea of snuggling into Netflix, pug wedged at my side, beckons. 
Right now I'm hanging 100" long draperies.... readying the lake house for my friend's family week-long TG celebration/retreat. 

Friend, and I, have been cleaning, shifting, and making beds for the last two days.  It soothes my heart to picture the house filled with babies and people in need of respite, and a safe place to rest.....the mother of an 18mo and non verbal 3yo son, is finishing up chemo (her mother's in jail.)  The other young (mid 20's) parents of a 7yo and 18mo, live with them in a 2 br apartment.  Not gonna lie.....their situations terrifies me.

I didn't mean to ramble on your thread Amber. 

Sorry pup is unwell, Hops.  Maybe we'll build an Amazon bonfire, on Thanksgiving day....for everyone.

Lighter








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I'm working on it.....working on it in several directions. 

Lighter
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Mine, too.
SO much renovation becomes an albatross, even before you fly to the Caribbean to supervise it.

Would love to see you free of it, Lighter.

hugs
Hops
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Farm Journal - 2025
« Last post by Hopalong on November 16, 2025, 01:54:04 PM »
Could I cook, I'd make Indian dishes with "soft spices" for a Friendsgiving.
As is, I'll either stay home and Netflix, or head to the UU congregation potluck with something bought, alas.

Just got a Tgiving card from my insurance broker. I'll get one or two more and that's so skimpy I don't put them on the piano any more. (Not that the piano top has an inch of room until I conquer it.)

Pup is better but had a return bout of his chandelier-shaking, roaring cough. Whooo.

Lastly, knowing your noses will be as happy as your eyes for this upcoming celebration, is a happy thing to ponder.

You might enjoy this one: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/HKqntuhZGek
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Fingers & toes crossed Lighter!
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Amber:  I hope the cottage sells to recent guests.  They're looking for a survey company.  Will see.
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Lighter, sweetie...
It's beyond me why you continue to try to maintain a property that is so far away, counting on people that (no judgement) you just can't count on. Are there any property management companies on the island or nearby that you could at least turn the maintenance over to?

It's hard enough for us to deal with the acreage we LIVE on and the list is all "work in progress". I tried once to have a totally communications free cabin... and it got way out of control. Life has been a good bit easier since selling it.

Once the lake house is settled (and imagining that you don't have any responsibility for the island anymore) wouldn't you like to travel? Do something brand new and different?

I dunno, this is just my opinion. And maybe reflects a glimmer of what I've been feeling lately. Less stuff to "take care of " has been on my "list' for a long time now.
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