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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Dirty Hippy on May 10, 2026, 01:28:34 PM »

- I decided not to go to church today
-- there is no reason I have to be a sheeple and keep doing it without thinking about why I am going
-- some days it's okay to have fewer destinations
-- I think I will go off to a cafe eventually once I make some toast etc.
-- not doing is also an act of self agency
-- I thought a lot about the social invitation I received and I feel stressed about it mainly the logistics of it but also I was reflecting on the mismatch of lifestyle
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Amber, your description of how you and B have carefully stepped into this real relationship was mind-blowingly wise to me. Beautiful!

I am nursing a serious crush on the old family friend who once had a crush on me. The reunion finally happened and I felt joyful throughout. The two brothers and the sister....all welcomed me like a long-lost cousin.

As to Crushman, he's written the most brilliant, funny, moving and fascinating memoir I've ever had the privilege to read. It's almost 700 pages long, and completely absorbing. I was up all night binge-reading.

Alas, it's not for sale publicly. He just "gifts" copies to specific people. I'd try to describe it but it's so encompassing I don't know how. He does have an earlier book, Take Me With You, about him traveling the ENTIRE world until he finds a local person to invite to come visit him, on his dime. That book is on Amazon, just ordered it.

My head's still spinning from all that, with gratitude. He loved my poetry, which felt good. But back to California he (and his wife) go now, so I'll be forlorn a bit.

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Hops
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Hopalong on May 09, 2026, 01:56:05 PM »
I SO enjoyed that video!
For some reason I asked myself, why no female singers? But, ehhhhh, culture.

I can see why the group is so successful.

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Hops
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: N.
« Last post by Dirty Hippy on May 08, 2026, 05:52:56 PM »

Personality disordered people have a higher rate of psychosomatic illness.



Specific disorders like Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) are associated with higher rates of chronic conditions, including cardiovascular disease, arthritis, and gastrointestinal issues like IBS.

El-Gabalawy, R., Katz, L. Y., & Sareen, J. (2010). "Comorbidity and associated severity of borderline personality disorder and physical health conditions in a nationally representative sample." Psychosomatic Medicine, 72(7), 712–718. 

Finding: This study identified a unique association between BPD and numerous physical health conditions, specifically cardiovascular disease, hypertension/arteriosclerosis, and gastrointestinal disease. 

Quirk, S. E., et al. (2016). "Borderline Personality Pathology and Chronic Health Problems in Later Adulthood." Psychosomatic Medicine, 78(8), 920–929. 

Finding: BPD features were significantly related to the reported presence of heart disease, arthritis, and obesity. 

Gastrointestinal & Syndrome-Like Citations
Zanarini, M. C., Frankenburg, F. R., Hennen, J., & Silk, K. R. (2004). "The association between borderline personality disorder and chronic medical illnesses, poor health-related lifestyle choices, and costly forms of health care utilization." The Journal of Clinical Psychiatry, 65(12), 1660-5. 

Finding: Non-remitted BPD patients were significantly more likely to have a history of "syndrome-like" conditions, which include chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia, as well as higher rates of osteoarthritis, diabetes, and hypertension. 

Frankenburg, F. R., & Zanarini, M. C. (2006). "The association between borderline personality disorder and obesity." Psychotherapy and Psychosomatics, 75(5), 315-322. 

Finding: Confirmed that BPD is related to an increased risk of obesity and its related medical comorbidities. 

Comprehensive Reviews
Gunderson, J. G., Herpertz, S. C., Skodol, A. E., Torgersen, S., & Zanarini, M. C. (2018). "Borderline personality disorder." Nature Reviews Disease Primers, 4, 18029. 

Finding: This comprehensive review notes that BPD patients have a higher prevalence of somatic comorbidities, including endocrine, metabolic, respiratory, and cardiovascular diseases than those without the disorder.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by sKePTiKal on May 08, 2026, 07:18:48 AM »
Double take here too. But I see your tongue firmly in your cheek!
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Farm Journal - 2026
« Last post by sKePTiKal on May 08, 2026, 07:17:21 AM »
I studied intensively for 4 years - 2 nights/week and Sat for the last year. Now, private personal practice.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Hopalong on May 07, 2026, 09:34:37 PM »
Doggone it, I loved the name Boat That Rocks.
And made the transition okay to Meh.

And now...THIS????  Dang!     j/k

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Hops
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Farm Journal - 2026
« Last post by Dirty Hippy on May 07, 2026, 11:32:33 AM »

How many years have you been doing Tai Chi Skeptical?

Ah I missed world Qigong Tai chi day or whatever it was in April. Could have watched some free demos somewhere probably.

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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Dirty Hippy on May 07, 2026, 11:04:13 AM »

I figured the password issue out yay me.
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